Top Marital Problems that cause Infidelity

  • Spouses avoid conflict, making it difficult for needs to be expressed.

  • Intimacy is frightening to one or both partners of the relationship.

  • An affair provides a “safety valve” for reducing intimacy.

  • The marriage is in trouble.

  • One person refuses to look at their role in the problematic relationship.

  • Infidelity is a last ditch effort to get the spouse’s attention.

  • Revenge affairs occur when the betrayed partner pays back the partner with their own infidelity.

  • ​The infidelity is used as a means of exiting the relationship.