According to Recent Research, the following signs are proven symptoms of relationship deterioration that are associated with a greatly increased probability of breakup or divorce:
Feeling Distant
Increase in Arguing or Negativity
Lack of Affection
Increase in Anger, Hostility and/or Sarcasm
Avoidance of Each Other; Stonewalling
Trust Issues (affairs; hiding cell phone/texting; suspicious absences)
If You're Having One or More of the Signs Listed Above, Be Sure to Take Some Action Soon to Improve Your Situation.
What Do Couples Normally Argue About?
Physical intimacy (Too little . . . too much. . . how much is the right amount?)
Jealousy and infidelity (How can I trust that my partner is being faithful?)
Parenting styles (One parent is too easy, the other parent is too tough . . . who’s correct?)
Finances (One partner is a scrooge, the other is a spender. How do you create a financial plan that honors the need to save with the need to enjoy life?)
In-laws (Setting boundaries with in-laws and shifting primary allegiance from the family of origin to each other is the task of early marriages and relationships. Hence, in-laws issues tend to be more prevalent in first marriages).
Step-children (Blending families together, balancing the needs of husbands and wives along with the needs of the children, is the difficult task to master in subsequent marriages).
Our Marriage Counseling helps by providing:
A safe environment for all points of view to be heard, validated and considered
Communication skill building
Relationship skill building
Effective boundary setting and respect
Psycho-education about appropriate family roles and expectations
Wisdom and coaching from a neutral, professionally trained and highly experienced third party